I found a mangled connector hanging but my bad CV boot. Its red and has 8 holes. Two of the holes aare plugged and it has 6 pins in it. I found the other half and it sits on top of the trans. I was wondering what this controls. The connector looks like it got caught in the axle so its time for a junk yard run. The car was starting and running with it disconnected. I will try to snap a pic later