Just an update. So the issue remains after using the circuit provided by JRV above. However, the light that stays on is the amber passenger side (not white as I stated earlier). Further, it is at a very dim level, not the full bright as when you are using the turn signal. To make it go out, I have to remove the fuse provided by Brightlights from the inline pos terminal wire attached at the battery, and then re insert it. Then the light stays out. So now i suspect that the box/relay that came with the kit, is allowing a trace amount of power through?? I dunno. I need to sit down and think about it .