Well, my shop time is limited. A friend lent me his shop for 2 days and I'm going on to 3, need to get this done and out of his shop.
I went with the original setup, had no lumber around to reinforce anything, so I put jackstands under the engine anytime I am under there. It appears to be VERY solid, the engine stayed put when I dropped the subframe.
I've come across a couple issues... 1 serious.
one of my front subframe bolts snapped, and is stuck inside the frame.
Whats the best way to get it out? drill out the middle and use an easy out?
RCM gave me a resurfaced flywheel with a ****** ring gear

Can I flip the ring gear around the other way, or will that stress the teeth because all the load used on them has been pushing them the other way?
Found the surface of the old flywheel to be all spotted, is that oil contamination or heat?
Old pressure plate appears to be fairly worn:
Last but not least...
which way do the new subframe bushings go on? Cupped side on the bottom, or on top? I'm thinking the thicker one goes in the middle, between the subframe and car
old bushings
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and also, the high heat grease for the clutch, the drawing is kinda vague, does that go behind the sleeve, over top of the sleeve and on the pressure plate fingers and TOB fork tips?