pretty sure you are the one i was having this same argument with almost a year ago when i had my HIDs installed and i used the same 'I never get flashed from traffic' comment.
i also remember you challenging me to go take a picture at night of how much scatter my HIDs threw off at night and when i went to go do that i never even bothered since even with the beams adjusted all the way down it still scattered 20ft up the building i had the car pointed at from 20ft away.
head on in dim light pics dont work, take a pic from behind the car with your headlights pointed at a building from a 40ft distance in the dark if there isnt a definite difference in the amount of light shining below 3ft up the wall and above it. you fail. sorry. i was officially pwn'd back then as well.