IIRC, you could get an infrared thermometer and shoot it at the lower radiator hose, that would be a pretty good indicator of temperature. Or should you do it at the upper hose? that's where the thermostat is...
The ECT sender sensor is even easier to change than the ECT sensor itself is... I remember the last time I did that area I changed the t-stat, ECT, ACT, ECT sender, and the EATC air temp sensor (cos that's what came in the first time I ordered the ACT) all at the same time. I figured that was good enough. The whole shebang only took an hour from start to finish, and that included going to AAP to get a stupid 1" socket for the ECT sensor.