..this problem started when I took the car down a dirt road(which I rarely do) and then all of a sudden starting overheating ......
How hot did it get? How far was it driven while overheated? An overheating condition can warp a head, and allow a head gasket to blow. The usual symptoms are any combination of: steam from the exhaust, coolant in the oil, dull gray milky appearing oil,,,that's the coolant mixed with oil, and bubbles in the radiator. The bubbles are the exhaust leaking into the coolant. The tests are cylinder compression and leakdown, and cooling system pressure test. If the head really is warped, it is junk. Milling just puts a flat surface on the bottom, the top of course is also warped so the cam bearings are no longer in alignment.
Perry