i use the solid torque limiters and have had no ill effects. I did not notice any increased harshness, or noise in the passenger compartment. If the strength of the strut tower is an issue, you could pull the studs out and use a large washer to distribute the force applied to the thin sheet metal of the strut tower. I mearly suggeste dhe use the solid limiters to prevent the destruction of the expensive motor mounts.
ALso i drag race, with drag radials and an aggrssive launch, i have yet to break a motor mount and i give credit to the limiters. Also, the "hulk" had them installed, we know that thing made good torque, and he never had issues of broken mounts or strut tower problems.
I can see where you are coming from, but the solid limiters do seem to do a good job. i can say this because i have never heard of broken strut towers or brackets.