I have to disagree, I believe it's the combination, the flywheel will make the most difference IMO. The lighter flywheel will make it trickier ot drive even on a stock clutch, but it's really not as bad as some say it is.
My spec stage 2 feels lighter then my stocker did, old worn out clutches and such I guess can feel worse.
I have to say It took me a couple days to get used to, I then parked my car for 2 years, and hopped right in and had no trouble.
The 9lb and stage 2 are really a sweet combination. It's perfectly fine for DD and isn't as horrible to engage as people say it is. The only thing I would say is that if you do a LOT of stop and go traffic, be aware that the 9lb flywheels don't take heat as well as stockers, so in that case I would say a 17lb or a lightened stocker would be your best bet. All it is, is that you have a smaller window I'll say, to slip and engage the clutch, where you will have to give it a bit more gas to keep the engine's momentum up. It's really not difficult to do after you get used to it. Plus it's sweet when people want to drive your car, and they can't. People always wanna drive my sho, and I have this thing about people driving my cars, but I finally will give in sometimes and let them, saying if you stall it once, you're done. They get in, stall it right off the bat, and then they're done