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brake cleaner in the arm pits ............:laugh_ti: I'm not even going to ask how....... sat on couple of rag soaked in brake cleaner that sucks could not even think about the arm pits....
Definitely try to avoid getting water in and around the plug wells, and don't be surprised if they get wet anyway. I personally wouldn't want to do this unless I have a compressed air source nearby to blow the water out of the wells afterwards. I power-washed my whole engine bay earlier this year, and 5 of the 6 wells needed to be blown out. Even after they were dried out, the resulting misfire took a little while to clear up.

Brake cleaner(assortment of bristle brushes+rags+Kerosene) = no need to pressure wash.
Oven cleaner time depends on amount of crap/temperature. The hotter it is the better it works. I have only used this stuff on hard carbon deposits. Never tried it on soft greasy crapolla.
For degreasing, Purple Power seems to work ok.
For general cleaning, I use Meguiars D103 All Purpose Cleaner Plus. I use a brush like this to get in all the nooks and crannies.