Many people put on larger sway bars to "get more grip", when sway bars decrease grip at that axle (barring significant grip increases from more consistent suspension geometry). Using the sway bars for tuning is the right thing to do. The sway bars unload the inside tire in order to add load to the outside tire, significantly reducing its friction coeffecient (much more than the increase coeffecient on the inside tire, which is now providing only a small amount of the total grip anyway). The ultimate is the 3-tire pegleg stance, where one tire is carrying the load of an entire axle. From load sheets I've seen published tires can easily lose 20% of their CF when the load goes up by 50% -- that's 20% of your grip that you are giving up.
Of course, if you can't put on stiffer springs to control roll stiffness then there is only so much you can do, but stiff springs are the best solution for maintaining the suspension geometry and optimizing the tire's contact patch. Running higher spring-rate coilovers with no front sway bar and a smaller (23mm) rear bar allows me to get much more even loading between (and across) the tires than I was previously able to do with stock or Intrax springs and a 22/26 combo.
I think a nice 'almost-daily-driver' combination would be a coilover-based setup (lighter weight, 2.5" ID springs) with sufficiently long 300-350lb front springs and 200-250lb rear springs. Progressive-rate springs are nice for ride control but I was never happy with the transient response of the Intrax springs I had; the stock ones seemed to be more predictable.
It's also amazing how few driving games model sway bars properly, but that's another topic...
-Lance