I have the wiring diagrams for the 2011 model year. I'm what sure what year the original poster is referring to, or how much difference there would be from the 2011 to the current model year.
From what I can tell looking over the wiring diagrams, I don't see any preamp outputs. There are preamp inputs labeled on the diagram, but no unused outputs from the amplifiers. Of course if they are not used, they may not be labeled on the wiring diagrams either.
What I've read of other folks who have added aftermarket subs, they used a line output converter to step down the high level outputs to preamp levels. It seems that if there were preamp outputs readily available, someone would have found them by now.
Also, the 4 inch speaker on the rear deck (at least for the 2011) is an image speaker for the surround sound, not a sub woofer. The subs are 6x8 or 6x9 in the left and right rear deck locations.
It appears the only "enable" line is the clipping detection signal. I don't think that would work very well to work as a remote turn on signal. Also, back when I installed a pair of subs in my old 2000 Mountaineer, the turn on signal to the factory amplifier was a 5V signal. I used on optical relay to turn on the aftermarket amp. I wouldn't be surprised if the current factory systems use a logic level of some sort for enable signals rather than a standard 12V signal.
If anyone wants the 2011 audio system wiring diagrams, send me a Private Message with the request. Include an e-mail address that I can mail several JPEG and PDF attachments to.
-Rod