Mike92silver,
Yes, at wide open throttle(WOT) you should be on the rich mixture side. Do you run at WOT all the time?
The tailpipe is normally going to be dark gray to a charchol color. A rich condition will show up as black sooty deposits, and a degree of black smoke with the smell of gasoline if the condition is real rich.
The O-2 sensors in combination with the computer are calibrated to maintain a 14.7 to 1 air/fuel mixture ratio. The sensor signals the condition to the computer, then the computer adjusts the fuel injectors. (very over simplified)
So, you have one or two O-2 sensors telling you that you have a rich condition. This is supported by the evidence that you are getting very poor fuel milage (13MPG), and the blackened tailpipe. You have further reason to believe the sensors because they are relatively new.
Assuming the sensor is not faulty (for now), the next question should be "what is causing the rich condition"? The two general causes are restricted air flow and poor ignition. Add excessive fuel pressure as a mechanical possibility.
With the advent of these computer controlled cars we add the possibility that a sensor is provideing faulty information, and causing fuel to be added to the mixture when it is not needed, eg TPS, MAF, MAP, ACT, ECT.(etc, get it eek! )
Once you have the problem defined make a list of the possible causes, and start eliminating them by diagnostic testing.
I would not assume that any sensor is not faulty. You may put it low on your priority list of things to check, but do not eliminate it from the list! rangerj