well now that its freaking cold as balls out (low 30s currently). i finally need to use the heater. but if i have it on auto the engine simply will never heat up. no matter what. so i try keepin it off and freezing my ass off for 10 min. then it gets right up there, at least 1/2 way on the temp guage. so im like yay! heater time! turn it on, and you could freakin watch the temp drop. well not really but within a coulple min its about on the blue mark. dont think its a thermostat since it does heat up fine normally. so im like what the ****, either be nice and toasty and drive like a panzy. or freeze my self and have fun. i usually opt to just wearing some gloves and a jacket, and having fun. but it would be really nice to be able to drive hard and be warm. plus the g/f doesnt like no heater... i do realize that the heater does help cool the engine off, but this is just crazy...

Until you replace it, use the VENT setting. It'll prevent the A/C compressor from coming on, and keep the fan off, which is what's causing the engine not to reach operating temperature.