The male half will not fit through the subframe opening. It's off by a MM or so, very small, but still unable to go through. This is w/the subframe out of the car. I don't know if it's intentially made this way so it can get stuck in the subframe, but it seems if I put the frame up and tighten the bolt, it'll shave off some aluminum. Is this bad or what? Maybe the 89 SF holes are a little bit smaller? 