I admit to never having cared about looks at all, myself, but back when My Gen III was new and I tried 245/45/16s from Bridgestone that did in fact suggest a 6.5"-8" rim, there was noticeable handling improvement from the RSAs that had been on the car. Of course, some or all of that could have been from just getting away from the RSAs, which were really not very good tires. But the point should be the sidewall. If the sidewall can remain relatively vertical on the rim, then the increased size of the contact patch will remain in use and depending on other factors (how sticky the rubber is, how well the rest of the suspension keeps the patch on the pavement, etc.), handling will improve.
So, the sidewall is really critical the critical factor in this, and it is based on that factor that the manufacturer will suggest a rim width range. So long as you stay in that range, you will likely do OK and often will increase the handling capabilities of the vehicle. And sidewalls are always getting better as tire makers look to improve their product, so over time, you can end up doing more with less. Looks, well, those are a personal thing. Some people seem to really like it when the tires look very fat. I do not really care enough about that sort of thing for it to matter to me.
pax, smn