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As for the Fidanza, the dowel problem is not a huge deal, as long as you do not install it with the problem. You can check the dowels by easily throwing the pressure plate on top of the flywheel like you are installing it. You want the pressure plate to seat flush with the flywheel. If there are any little gaps or big gaps, all you do is grab out the grinder and grind down the dowel pins within one minutes worth of time. This is what you want to do with any flywheel, in any case. Fidanza has been in the aftermarket for years, always having replacement inserts. You do not have to worry about this company closing up shop and having to source a new flywheel or insert from elsewhere. However, the lighter weight the flywheel, the more prone the flywheel is subject to flexion. A few supercharged SHO guys have thrown their Fidanzas out in favor of stock flywheels because of this problem.