My observations on the tradeoffs
Chris, there is much you can do with suspension, and there is much you can do wrong.
Keep in mind that I have owned, casually raced (road course, autocross, and dragstrip), and worked on many cars, not just SHOs. Also, I know you a little bit, and what your needs are. You also live in Toledo, and drive on Toledo roads. This is also your only driver, and you want it NOT to be harsh.
Tires and wheels:
Go with a set of dedicated summer tires and nice wheels, around the 17X7-8'" size, 225-245 section width. Put the slicers and some all-season tires on for the snow months. (Sell your Cobra's to me!) This is the first thing that you should do, for it is ultimately where the car meets the pavement.
Brakes:
Go with '96 sized front brakes, stock replacement rotors, and play with pads. PFC has not let me down yet. You get easy to get stock parts and stock reliability.
Sway bars:
The 24/26 setup you have now is nice, but maybe try a 22mm front bar. TPR front and rear bushings, as well as aluminum or nylon front endlinks and TPR rear endlinks will firm things up.
Strut tower braces, h-brace, tubular rear control arms:
Nice to have, but in my opinion not worth the money or hassle for your uses.
Struts:
This is sort of difficult. They made many Taurui; few of them SHOs. All the common replacement struts are for the more common application: SLOs! The Sachs struts (available from SHOX.com) seem to be direct replacement SHO items (can anyone confirm?), and are the ones that I would go with in a hearbeat. However, if you have the money, Koni's are the way to go with their somewhat adjustability. Do not forget to replace the strut mounts and bearing plates with the appropriate parts, as they are wear items.
Springs:
Think where you live! Do you cherish your internal organs, and ground clearance? I once knew a kid who had a bruised tailbone, but his CRX daily driver would hang with my TII at the track. Leave your stock springs in, or try stock or slightly modified MOOG cargo coils first. I have no firsthand experience, but the numbers seem nice. Plus, they are cheap and easily available.
Playing with components on your car is a process, not a done deal. Make changes, observations, adjustments, and have fun. Just because it costs more, has a better name, or everyone has it, does not make it work for YOU.
Justin