Your right in that you don't NEED an Apexi if you have the tweecer R/T or the SC-Tuner. As you point out, your far better off making the adjustments within the EEC directly than to make the adjustment from the outside through a "workaround".
I had been using my Apexi SC-Tuner for A/F tuning before I had access to the SC-Tuner and now the Tweecer and and liked the ability to make quick adjustments to the WOT fuel settings on the fly. No pc, no boot up, no re-starting the car, etc. You just tap a few buttons to add fuel at any RPM range you want - on the fly.
My intent is to perform the base A/F tune with the Tweecer and have the Apexi by default not making any a/f adjustments for normal day to day driving. But, should the SHO need a bit of extra fuel richness because of knocking (say a hot day or a bad load of fuel), I can easily add a bit or richness for WOT with the Apexi with the push of a few buttons at the desired RPM ranges. Its mostly convenience that I'm after.