with a good valve cover set you should get the spark plug tube seals... thats what leaking inside your plug wells if thats your problem.....
you can also see oil on top of your valve covers from leaking valve cover bolt gaskets, which nobody makes anymore........ I'm still working on an alternative for this
this type of service overlaps with another SHO maintenance area, adjustment of the valves.... you can spend as much money on this as you want. Someone like me, I would replace all the coolant hoses, thermostat, coolant, radiator crap, intake manifold couplers, intake manifold gaskets, and clean the intake really good. While its all apart you can check all the clearances between the camshaft and the valve actuators....
this is refered to as a 60k service
more information can be found here,
www.shophoenixproject.com
along with lots of pictures, parts lists, step by step instructions.........
enjoy the reading
if you are at all interested in tackling this project yourself, and you don't know much about cars... maybe persuade a mechanic you know to come by and give you some guidance, to make sure that these things would actually cure your problem.... because its tough to say they will just from your description and never seeing the car personally.......
all the oil on the valve covers could just be another problem that you happened to notice.... there could be other things going on....