If you hear the pump run at all when you turn on the key, replace the fuel filter first. It may or may not fix it, but it is a $10 part, and very easy to do. And if you are going to change the fuel pump, you will want to change the filter anyway.
There are fuses and relays that contol everything electrical on the car. I just don't know exactly where the ones for the fuel pump would be. There is a good sticky thread here on wiring diagrams that might help you locate them.
As for the ease of replacing the pump itself, it depends on whether or not someone has done the access door modification which allows you to access the pump by removing the back seat. Otherwise you have to drop the fuel tank, and that's not any fun, not to mention a bit dangerous if you don't have the proper equipement to do it.
There used to be a thread on here about how to make an access door. You should be able to find it by searching.
Good luck.