I went through all of this many years ago on my 2010 when I purchased my TSW Nurburgring's.
I sold my factory set of rims to a fellow local SHO owner, and included the banded style TPMS sensors with them at the time of sale. I regretted that in hindsight.
Upon installing my TSW's, no other sensor was able to be programmed/paired with the car, other than the OEM banded style sensors.
NONE!
Didn't matter if they were aftermarket, or even Ford valve stem style sensors and several attempts made both at the Ford dealership that I purchased the SHO from, as well as several area tire shops.
Literally the only damn one's that worked were the OEM banded style.
Wouldn't surprise me if the OP had to go through the same end result as I had to, in order to find resolution.